In happier news... I wasn't home to see it but her Daddy did a great job dressing her up and taking her trick or treating with friends! |
November 4, 2009
Halloween
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The Flu
Yep folks, I got the flu. Luckily I think I have the old-school version, not the N1H1. So no tummy issues, but I do look like the Before part of a NyQuill commercial. Brunch: Navy jersey dress from Soprano, silver flops from Havanias, silver jewlery. It was a casual place (Poogan's Porch). I brought my black belt and black patent T-straps to dress it up but the flip flops were actually more appropriate for the event. Rehearsal: Same outfit. I was so sick, I came home from the brunch, took off the flip flops and my earrings and crashed right into the bed. I woke up, brushed my teeth, washed my face, put on some mascara and Burt's Bees tinted lip balm in Fig and headed out in my sick funk. This is me sitting on the front porch of the hotel waiting for my friends to pick me up and take me to the rehearsal. Rehearsal Dinner: I took a very hot shower and some cold medicine and thought I was feeling better so I wore my black feather print dress from Muse (I took a picture of me in it last week but it's on my work computer), black patent T-straps from Softt, black patent clutch from Ann Taylor Loft and silver hoops and cuff. I looked cute, but the good feeling didn't last. I was hot and stiff and achy and out of it. So out of it, I walked up the stairs to the restaurant lobby where the restrooms were and passed some college kids on benches waiting for a table. I heard them say, "damn, she's trashed!" I didn't at the time think they meant me until I returned and carefully maneuvered the stairs and they clapped when I got to the bottom. It did make me giggle, though it also made me want to go back and cough on them. ;) No picture of the FANTASTIC dress (I will be rocking the heck out of it this winter!), but here I am with my sister upon arriving at the rehearsal dinner before I felt as though I was going to die... Breakfast: We had reservations at High Cotton and I knew I had to eat something that day so I took a hot shower and went. I wore my red print dress from Max Studio with the black patent belt from Ann Taylor and my black patent T-straps. The place was quite lovely, but I was still feeling poor so we made the meal short and went to Harris Teeter to stock up on drugs and Gatorade for me. I then spent the rest of the day sleeping so I could be in decent shape for the wedding. Wedding: I wore my black Calvin Klein maxi dress that I wore for my friend Shelly's wedding, gold sandals from Lands End, all of my gold bangles, some gold dangly earrings and a black pashmina. Hair was messy/curly, smoky eyes. I wore the pashmina for the ceremony, pinned behind me so it worked like a shrug. I took it off for the reception. Trip home: I rode home with my sister in her car. I was not feeling cute nor looking cute. Wore a dark red nursing tank from Bravado so I could easily pump while on the road, my Gap jeans from the flight down, and my Kenzie cardigan. The Havanias flip flops rounded out the sick girl look. So I left Saturday morning, came home Monday night and have been sick ever since. I have not been to work. I hope to be well enough to properly work from home tomorrow, but my brain is really fuzzy, I am dizzy, achy, and exhausted from coughing. |
October 27, 2009
Tuesday
I bought this dress as a final sale from Banana Republic. I think it cost me something like $20. I bought it while pregnant, thinking it would be the right size postpartum. I got it... and realized it was too big. It's an XL, even though I may be XL in some places, I obviously am not for this dress. I think next time I may wear it with a belt. If that doesn't look good, I will have to donate this to a taller, larger-boned friend. But the dress is the most gorgeous shade of ultraviolet and a super soft merino. And what a lovely floppy neck! It's rainy and ucky out, and I feel just as cozy in this as I did this morning padding around in my pink leopard-print pajama pants! With it are my black leather boots from Ros Hamerson, silver chain from Ralph Lauren, silver hoops and cuff. I don't know if this happens to any other woman. You put on your lipstick, and then you put it in your purse for touchups later in the day. Then the next day you're rushing to get ready and you realize that because you have been putting your lip product in your bag all week, you now have no lipsticks or glosses in your makeup case! Well this happened to me this morning, so you see a chalky pink pencil that I put on to help my Laura Mercier Pink Champagne adhere longer. Pink Champagne was applied in the car once I parked at the Metro, before hopping on the train. As for the rest of my makeup, it's Estee Lauder Doublewear Light foundation, Laura Mercier Secret Camouflage concealer, Nars blush in Orgasm, Pop beauty shadow palette for brown eyes - the celadon on lids, the black in crease and along lash lines. A bit of Avon Luxury liner in black, and Tarte's Lights, Camera, Lashes! mascara in black. I have tried a ton of new products lately and have been quite the slacker on reviews. However I do have to mention one product I have recently used that I adore. For the past month I have been using the Olay Professional Pro-X Anti-Aging Starter Kit. This kit has a night cream, eye cream and SPF 30 day moisturizer. I have been using it almost every night (yes, I must admit I sometimes pass out before taking off my makeup) and every morning and have seen a big change in my skin. Compare my skin above to my skin here, a month prior. You can see that the wrinkles in my forehead and around my eyes are less pronounced, my age spot on my cheek is a bit fainter, and even the little bumps I always have on my chin are clearning up. I bet the change will be more obvious in another month. I am known to have reactions to harsh chemicals and salycitic acid, but I haven't had a single reaction to this line and the eye cream doesn't irritate my allergy-prone, contacts-wearing eyes. The kit isn't cheap, but it has been a month and I still have 1/3 of the day and eye creams and probably half of the night cream. This kit is worthy of repurchase in the full-size containers. |
Going Green – The Diva Cup
I was tempted to not post about this because I felt it may be controversial. But then I wondered WHY it would be controversial. The audience of this blog is predominately women, and predominately women who are between the ages of 18 and 50. This means the majority of you reading this are having a monthly period. As that a post about periods may be relevant to more of you than say wide-calf boots or petite trousers, I have decided to proceed with this topic. Women, on average, experience a lifetime menstruation span of 41 years (11-52). From use of disposable feminine hygiene, an estimated 12 billion sanitary pads and 7 billion tampons are dumped into the North American environment each year (1998). More than 170,000 tampon applicators were collected along U.S. coastal areas between 1998 and 1999. Our revolutionary, reusable product is a modern, viable alternative to disposable tampons and pads. Most tampons and pads contain surfactants, adhesives and additives. In addition, most pads contain polyethylene plastic whose production is a pollutant. Also, dioxin, a known carcinogen, is a by-product of the bleaching process of tampons containing rayon. In landfills, many of these substances can leach into the environment (groundwater, streams and lakes) causing serious pollution and health concerns. Although not all women can afford to purchase an energy-efficient hybrid car or convert their home to solar energy, they can reduce dangerous landfill waste by choosing to use a reusable, silicone menstrual cup. When considering the pollution and volume of waste that is inherent in the use of disposable tampons and pads, replacing one’s feminine hygiene with The DivaCup makes good environmental sense and manifests in a positive eco-footprint every month! Because many women have become accustom to purchasing disposable feminine hygiene products, they consider the expenditure “necessary”. Most women spend $150-200 U.S. a year on disposable tampons and pads. The purchase of The DivaCup results in significant savings. The cost of The DivaCup is equivalent to a moderately-priced blouse or dinner out, yet saves you money! Considering all this, I figured it wouldn’t hurt to try out the Diva Cup. I got mine from drugstore.com, because they offer free shipping for purchases over $50 and you get cash back with ebates. This made the DivaCup a hair over $30 – I have spent that much on a stupid dress from Target that has only been worn once before it fell apart. Since I was pregnant and breast feeding, I didn’t have a chance to use a DivaCup until recently. I tried it out this past cycle… and I have to say I am a convert. I chose Size 2 because I am over 30 and had a child. Being an ex-o.b. user I am not one to be skeeved out by her body. I found the DivaCup very easy to insert, especially when still wet from washing it. Speaking of washing, the emptying/cleaning of the DivaCup is not as grody as you may imagine. When at home, it’s easy to rinse out and re-insert. At work or away from home, you can wash your hands, remove it, wipe it out with some toilet paper and re-insert without having to leave the confines of your stall. The thing is the DivaCup holds so much, most women can go an entire workday without having to empty it. I really haven’t felt it at all – it is more comfortable than a tampon, holds more than even a super tampon, and is more reliable (never have had a leak, even overnight). Also I personally find the measuring marks fascinating – when using pads or tampons you really don’t know how much flow you have. And no, I didn’t get paid by DivaCup, and I didn’t get a free DivaCup from this company. I chose to write about this because I don’t think a lot of women know about menstrual cups, and are a bit concerned about them – they may leak, they may hurt, they may be gross or a PITA. I know there are many other products on the market that work in essentially the same manner, but I chose the DivaCup because it was so easily accessible at local stores and online shops. I think the DivaCup is such an easy way to make a difference with the environment while being kind to your body and not adding burden or discomfort to your life! |
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Friday through Sunday
Last Friday I wore my fuzzy gray swing cardigan from Kenzie, a black ribbed tank from Caslon, new dark Long and Leans from Gap, black city boots and big chunky silver jewelry. There is nothing better than coming home from a long day at work and get such a reception... The weekend was pretty chill. Saturday was my best friend's birthday so we went to her house for some wine, pizza and friendship. Sunday we had my sister over for brunch but spent most of the rest of the day sleeping (think E is cutting another tooth). |
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October 22, 2009
Thursday
Black jersey wrap dress from Talbots, black tall boots from Ros Hamerson, silver chain from Ralph Lauren, silver earrings from Treehouse, my silver cuff and chain with wedding band (put on after photo). Hair is MUCH happier on Day 2, and obviously so am I. By the way, this lipstick is Pink Chanpagne by Laura Mercier, and I utterly adore it. I am on a big Laura Mercier kick recently - everything I purchase from the line I love. This lipstick is the perfect pinky brown nudish color for me, and it goes on smoothly, has no weird smell or taste and stays on pretty well without drying out! |
Tuesday and Wednesday
Tuesday doesn't have pictures. Emerson is going through what I think is a growth spurt and isn't sleeping well. On top of that, I had to be at work at 7am. The combo doesn't make for good photo ops... I wore my blackberry dolman-sleeved tunic sweater from Ann Taylor Loft with dark Long & Lean jeans from Gap and my black city boots. Very nondescript. Black pants from New York & Company, blackberry deep v-neck sweater from Philosophy (worn a lot right after E was born), black cami from Banana Republic, black city boots from David Tate. Silver cuff, hoops and chain with wedding band (seriously, I am now only 9 pounds heavier than I was before I got pregnant and the wedding set STILL does not fit. I need to get it resized). This is a terrible face, but somehow it was the only one I captured that was not blurry as I dashed out the door: That's the face I make when I see people wearing high-waisted tapered faded jeans with fanny packs. Anyway, hair is BEGGING me to get it cut and colored, maybe that is why I was making such a face. This photo was after straightening, smoothing, curling, polishing and primping. Really sad. It's just hard because this month I had to buy a plane ticket and a wedding gift, we had to get some equipment for my husband's business and some stuff for Emerson. However I think I will have to at least get a cut before November. I don't have enough time in the morning to deal with hair drama! :) |
October 19, 2009
Monday
New pants! These were originally $110 but on sale for $49.50 at Ann Taylor. They are charcoal with a gray faint stripe on them and the sort of fabric that can be worn year-round. Nice flat waist with a tab waistband so it doesn't dig, it doesn't roll, it doesn't highlight a muffin top. Hurrah. With it is my orange cotton scoopneck sweater from Lands End, a necklace from New York and Company (I removed superflous chains to make the necklace more simple/expensive looking), black city boots from David Tate, silver hoops and cuff. My hair was washed and conditioned the night prior. I was going to take a shower, but the shower is next to Emerson's room and she has been a light sleeper lately. I opened the door to the linen closet to get a towel and I heard her squeak in her sleep. Our master bathroom has a leak when we use the shower and well... we just haven't had time to figure it out (we think it just needs a recaulking). So I washed my hair under the faucet of the master bathtub, and then the body in a bath. The humidity of the bath always affects the final look of my hair when I air dry. I added some Frederic Fekkai Luscious Curls, scrunched and went to bed. Come AM, it was a bit strange in places and lovely in others so I used the curling iron on the bad parts. Sort of beachy casual... Makeup is Laura Mercier Secret Camouflage, Estee Lauder Double Wear Light foundation and lipstick in Wild Ginger and shadow in... some colors from a gift with purchase palette, Nars blush in Orgasm, Body Shop shadow in Soft Black used as liner, Tarte Lash Hugger mascara. Yep, I have switched to my winter color of foundation. The Nutritious foundation is Intensity 3.0 which is a bit dark now for my sun-starved skin! |
She Takes After Her Mom...
She understands that a woman can be a feminist... And still love beauty and fashion! Feminist tee shirt available at CafePress |
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October 14, 2009
Wednesday
Today was an early morning so the pictures are meh, the makeup is meh, the outfit and makeup are pretty basic. My shoes were downstairs - I didn't want to put them on upstairs and possibly wake my husband (poor guy was still asleep when I took this pic - you can even see Ruckus still asleep in the background). But I wore my black David Tate city boots. Off-white jeans from Ann Taylor and black merino turtleneck from Ann Taylor as well. Silver cuff from Ann Koplik Designs. My hair was washed and conditioned, I added some L'Oreal EverPure Frizz serum and Bumble and bumble Styling Creme while wet, and dried straight with a round brush. Makeup is Laura Mercier Secret Camouflage, Nars blush in Orgasm, Tarte Lash Hugger Mascara and CARGO Plantlove Botanical Lipstick in Muir Woods. I am knee-deep in a Webconference and in desperate need of caffeine. Luckily we will have a break soon so I can get my fix. :) |
October 13, 2009
Tuesday
Anyone recognize this dress??? Yeah baby, it's true what they say - nine months on, nine months off! Granted, I am not exactly back to my pre-baby weight and the body is no where the same shape it was, but many of my pre-pregnancy clothes are fitting again! I remember putting on this dress a couple weeks after Emerson was born. I knew it would be tighter, but was thinking I could maybe sport it with jeans like I did back when I was in my second trimester. It was so tight, it was cutting off the circulation on my arms and was super snug around the neck. I put it on, and I cried. There was no point in trying Spanx with it - the body looked ridiculous. This weekend I went up in the attic to get Emerson's 12-18 month clothes and I saw the box that had these dresses (also have in dark red) and figured, hey might as well bring it down, maybe now I could sport it with jeans or something. I washed it, hung it to dry and put it on this morning and eureka, it fits! So anyway I am wearing a black merino dress from Banana Republic, black tights from Spanx (Tight End Tights), black tall boots from Ros Hamerson, silver necklace from Ann Taylor, silver cuff bracelet. There is no picture of my face because... I forgot. And now I have an office mate so I can't very easily shoot a picture of myself at my desk and not look like a crazy woman. But believe me when I say that my hair is next day, large sections in a curling iron and made fluffy with some Elnett. I did a smoky eye with a soft pink lip and I think I look pretty fab. Wish the old pants fit, but hey... I'll take what I can get from the stash in the attic! |
October 12, 2009
My New Purse
I usually purchase a new bag a year. Most of the time I get them on eBay so I can get thye style and quality I desire at a price I can stomach. My last purse was this baby from Junior Drake. The two prior were from Banana Republic. (yes this picture was taken in a fitting room at Ann Taylor) This is the large foldover hobo from Fossil in grey leather. My sister says that it is a brown-tinged grey, and it may be but it is definitely not brown and not black. The hardware is brass, but very subtle so it doesn't clash with silver. There is the front pocket which has a magnetic closure, a back slash pocket and an interior pocket with a zipper (from which I clip my keys). Big enough that this bag looks sloughy while holding two full cosmetic bags, a wallet, a camera, a cell, and a book; yet not so big it looks like a bed pillow under my arm. I don't usually use the long strap, but I find it useful when carrying Emerson. When put across the body I can still easily access the pockets with one hand. So this is what I am currently wearing. I didn't like it at first but it has really grown on me and I love how it is very subtle and not an obvious style, trend or season. Next purchase... a winter coat. I still have my long quilted black coat but I would really like a wool coat this season and will get one if the price and fit is right... any suggestions? |
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Monday
Yes, I am at work today. Luckily most of my clients are government agencies so it has been a day of catching up on to-dos and being relaxed with the clock. Plum sweater from Ann Taylor Loft, black pants from New York & Company, David Tate city boots, green earrings from New York and Company and earrings from Treehouse. My hair is desperately asking me for a trim and color touch-up. I may go this week. I actually broke down and trimmed my own bangs Saturday night before the bachelorette party and sort of regret it (of course). This morning it wouldn't do curly and it wouldn't do straight. It only wanted to do Sitck My Head OPut Window at 95 MPH or Kip Winger. My makeup is Laura Mercier Secret Camouflage, Estee Lauder Nutritious foundation, Cargo Matte BeachBlush in Tenerife, Revlon ColorStay shadow quad in Neutral Khakis - the olive color on the lid. Stila shadow in... some dark purple in crease and along lash line. A Tarte mascara I got as a sample and Givenchy lipgloss in 04. No pictures yet from this weekend. For the bachelorette party I wore my black sleeveless wrap top from Ann Taylor, my black pants that I am wearing today, black patent shoes and lots of silver jewelery and a purple pashmina for the chill. For the shower I wore my other pair of black pants, black city boots, black cami and my plum deep v-neck wrap sweater from Philosophy. |
October 9, 2009
Going Green - Breaking the Paper Towel Habit
My husband and I aren’t ones to say we are Super Green – gosh you all know where I purchase my clothing and beauty products. However we do regularly try to infuse more earth-friendly routines and activities into our life. It’s better to do one or two small things than nothing at all. This mesh basket is great because I can see in it so I can easily dig round for the right sized rag. Also the mesh lets the towels breathe so they never smell musty or old. By the way, this basket is only half-full because a load of rags were in the laundry at the time of the photo. When a rag is used, we have a vented laundry basket inside our laundry closet and toss the rags right in there. Then they get washed the next laundry day. I sometimes toss them in with Emerson’s cloth diapers because I know they will then get scrubbed really well; other times I have so many I can do a load of just rags. When it’s nice out I put them on the line. I never use fabric softener with them because that inhibits the fabric’s absorbency – instead I use dryer balls (Google and you will find tons of different types and brands). I know people who keep said rags in a basket under their sink, in a box in their pantry or even their hallway coat closet. The kitchen drawer: Want to buy me a gift? Get me a cool looking dish towel. I love these guys and have slowly been building my stash. Clearance at big box stores, funky shops at the beach, thrift stores... you can find great dish towels most any where. This pile is a bit low because many (including my funky faves) were in the wash at the time of this photo. I could probbaly fill a while drawer with dish towels but don't have the kitchen space so they bunk with random gadgets. We use dish towels for quick wipes of the counter, to clean up splatters on the stove, even as napkins for some meals. We throw them into the laundry basket in the half bath when finished. For those who do not have a laundry room so close by, they sell wet bags that can hook right onto the front of your oven to hold dirty dishtowels and rags. Come laundry day, dump the contents into the washer, and even throw the wet bag itself in there and use it to carry your towels back to the kitchen after use. Hey, I again have a good use for my paper towel holder! NOTE: Another green and budget-friendly idea is to refill your foaming hand wash bottles with one part Dr. Bronner's castille soap to 10 parts water. That Method bottle is over a year old and though it may say Sweet Water, it in fact makes lovely suds that smell like tangerines. Cloth napkins: No picture, but we have slowly been getting a stash. I got some gorgeous blue printed ones that look like something that would be sold at Williams Sonoma – they were $5 for a 4-pack at Marshall’s. I of course bought two packs. Etsy has tons of shops that sell great cloth napkins in fun prints for low prices. Cloth napkins are easy to launder, take up little space and add a touch of elegance to even take-out pizza and cans of beer! It really is possible to live without paper towels - and this comes from a woman with three dogs and a baby! |
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Wednesday Night through Friday
Wednesday after work I had a hot date with my husband! A friend of ours had two tickets to the The Australian Pink Floyd Show at the Warner Theater. Supposedly this group is so good they were asked to play for David Gilmour's 50th birthday and have performed with members of Pink Floyd. The friend wasn't able to attend so he gave us his orchestra seat tickets for free. I remembered I still had a gift card to Jaleo that I received as a gift for officiating a friend's wedding last year so hubby and I had a free date night! The show was quite good and the crowd was phenomenal - so passionate about the music and supportive of the band. They really made the experience. And then the Warner Theater is so beautiful with the gold etchings on the ceiling and the chandeliers, the light show was even more awesome against such a backdrop. We were at my mom's by mignight to pick up Emerson and I was asleep before 1am. Not too shabby for a school night! Thursday: Red print dress from Max Studio, black belt from Ann Taylor, black patent T-straps from Sofft, silver cuff, solitaire stud earrings from Diamond Nexus Labs. Hair is next day, all I did was brush it. Makeup is pretty minimal - Laura Mercier tinted moisturizer, Nars blush in Orgasm, Cover Girl LashBlast mascara, Lorac eye shadow in Serenity and Lorac lipstick in Hatha. No pics today, nothing too exciting. Super casual Friday. I am wearing my Gap Essential jeans, my New Balance trainers, a gray ribbed tank, my gray and yellow striped cashmere cardigan from Gap. Hair was washed and conditioned and air dried into waves, makeup is pretty minimal. No plans for this evening, but this weekend should be pretty fun. My dear friend Amanda is having her bachelorette party on Saturday evening and then her shower on Sunday! I'll be sure to have pictures to share! |
October 7, 2009
Wednesday
Blue print matte jersey wrap dress from Ann Taylor, red patent T-straps from Sofft, red ball earrings from my mom, silver cuff. Hair is next day, just straightened while dry with round brush and dryer. Makeup is Laura Mercier Secret Camouflage, Estee Lauder Nutritious foundation in Intensity 3.0, Nars blush in Orgasm, Revlon Colorstay shadow quad in Neutral Khakis - the ivory on the brow bone and Colorstay lipcolor in Rich Raisin, Maybelline UltraLiner in Black, Cover Girl LashBlast mascara. And for the occasional Emerson fix, here I am with her right after I got home from work last night. I felt she looked very "Sprockets" in her black turtleneck onesie - her Daddy is still dressing her in crazy outfits (this onesie was paired with zebra-print BabyLegs and green socks and a cow-print diaper). But really, Emerson doesn't care - she was having a blast Army crawling around on the floor, banging plastic stacking cups together, freaking out the dogs! :) |
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October 6, 2009
Tuesday
Man, I can't recall what I wore to work on Friday... My purple paisley tunic dress from Ann Taylor Loft, black boots from Ros Hammerson, silver necklace from Ralph Lauren, silver cuff and silver hoops from Treehouse. Hair was washed and conditioned the night before with L'Oreal EverPure, then I added some Bumble and bumble. Styling Creme and L'Oreal EverPure gloss serum and let it dry while I slept. In the AM I used my curling iron on any random pieces. Makeup is Laura Mercier Secret Camouflage, Estee Lauder Nutritious foundation, Cargo Matte eachBlush in Tenerife, Body Shop shadows in Slate and Soft Black, Avon Glimmersticks in Midnight, Cover Girl LashBlast in Rich Black (never got a new mascara this weekend), Nars lipstick in Dolce Vita. |







































